Why I Still Chose a Life Coach, Even with a Caring Family

I am deeply grateful for the love, support, and presence of my husband, my brother, my parents and in-laws, and the many friends and relatives who walk with me in life. 

I realized that I have a community of over 200 beautiful souls who care for me to date and will continue to do so till this journey of Life. Yet, I choose to walk a unique spiritual path of growth with my Life Coach Nikhil Tyagi Sir.

My definition of Spirituality is:

Spirituality is about living authentically - doing what we truly can, what our heart desires, and what feels right to us in the moment, without forcing plans or overthinking. It’s about flowing with life at our own rhythm, wherever we are, whenever the moment calls.

My life coach Nikhil Sir does not replace the love of my family. Instead, he mirrors a part of ME that is often quiet in daily life - the part that seeks purpose, meaning, and service to others. 

In a world full of roles, expectations, and relationships, Nikhil Sir sees me simply as ME - without history, duty, or labels.

With Nikhil Sir, I:

• Think freely, and without fear of being judged. I am not given advice or suggestions for change that is harsh, or beyond what I can handle or follow,
• Dream boldly, beyond what others believe is practical or realistic or logical or rational,
• And most importantly, I learn to listen to my inner guidance - the deep wisdom within that inspires me toward compassion, clarity, and meaningful contributions.

I have chosen to include my life coach Nikhil Tyagi Sir in my journey not because I lack support, but because I seek alignment - with my values, my dreams, and the kind of impact I wish to make in the world.

This bond is sacred, inspirational, supportive, and deeply respectful - and it empowers me to bring my fullest best self to all the people I love and care in my life.

Written by Parvathy

Also known as, 

Mrs. Parvathy Umashankar Iyer

Ms. Parvathy Ananthanarayanan Mangala

Suniel Shetty Recalls Being Told to Sell Idli-Vada After Debut Success

Actor Suniel Shetty made a successful debut in 1992 with the action film Balwaan. 

But even though the movie was a hit, a top film critic wrote badly about him. 

The critic said Suniel was a “bad actor” and even suggested he should sell idli-vada (a South Indian snack) instead of acting.

In an interview to the media, Suniel said the critic was trying to insult him, but it didn’t hurt him. 

In fact, Suniel was proud of his roots. His family ran a South Indian restaurant, and that business helped pay for his and his sisters’ education. 

He shared how he used to clean tables, serve customers, and work in the kitchen. That experience made him who he is.

Before Balwaan, two of Suniel’s early films, Faulad and Aarzoo, got canceled. 

But his strong action image helped him land new roles. 

Today, he’s been in the film industry for more than 30 years and continues to act in new projects like Kesari Veer and Welcome to the Jungle.

Lessons Learned:

Stay proud of your roots. Suniel turned a critic’s insult into pride by embracing his background in the restaurant business.

Don’t let others define your worth. Even after harsh criticism, Suniel stayed confident and continued to work hard.

Early failures don’t mean the end. His first few films didn’t release, but he didn’t give up—and success followed.

Hard work builds strength. Suniel’s work in his family’s restaurant taught him discipline and humility that helped him in films.

Javed Akhtar Remembers Early Life Struggles

Veteran writer and lyricist Javed Akhtar opened up about the difficult times in his life before he became successful. 

In an interview to media, he shared how, during his struggles, he didn’t even know where his next meal would come from. 

Javed said that sometimes he would go without food for days, and all he had were two pairs of clothes—one being washed while he wore the other.

Despite all the hardship, Javed never thought about giving up. 

He had high self-esteem and believed that things would get better with time. 

He recalled how even after starving for more than two days, he didn’t ask for help. 

He felt sure that his situation would change.

Today, Javed Akhtar is one of Bollywood’s most successful writers and lyricists, known for iconic films like Sholay and Zanjeer, and his powerful lyrics in films like Lagaan and Border.

Lessons Learned:

Never give up on yourself. Even in the toughest times, Javed’s belief in himself kept him going.

Self-respect matters. His high self-esteem helped him stay strong and not give up, even when he was struggling.

Belief in a better future. Javed’s confidence that things would improve helped him survive his hardships.

Difficult times don’t last forever. With patience and persistence, challenges can be overcome.